Third Generation

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6. Ettore Giovanni Lorenzo ROMAGNANO. Born 18 Aug 1879 in Postiglione, Italy. Died 21 Sep 1962 in Bronx, NY. Buried 24 Sep 1962 in Ferncliff Cemetery, Hartsdale, NY. Occupation Laborer, laundry worker. aka Ed.

 

Notes:

During a conversation in July 1994, Alphonse told Tony: In Camden one evening, my father, Ettore, went into a bar after work. He got into a fight with a person he overheard say, in effect - they're letting Italians in here now! The police were called and he was escorted to the (Delaware) river, put on a Ferry to Philadelphia, and told not to return to Camden. That's when and why he moved to New York.

Alphonse = "He came [to America] in 1898 and was 17 years old." [Actually, if he came in 1898, he would have been 19; or, if he came when he was 17, it would have been 1896].

Per Elaine & Donna: He had 3 wifes (LaDonna, ...); was a snappy dresser; very demanding. Elaine knew and remembers him.

Excerpt of letter written by Elaine Romaine to Tony Romaine undated (circa17 Aug 1994) "Ettore and Elissa had two boys. The other two sons mentioned were Elissa's by another marriage which she fled from ... [Italy] to America with Ettore. Elissa was called La Donna, [in Italian 'the lady'], by neighbors and by my mother who said she was red-headed, tall, the wife of someone rich from up north, and very educated. Ettore had two other 'wives' after Elissa died: Sylvia and Marie who bore no children." "My father's family was not close knit but Ettore and his sons were literate, brainy, and cosmopolititan. Ettore, my grandfather, was vain, dashing and imperious. And had a mind like my fathers, quick and devastating. He had many jobs but ended up working at the Plaza Hotel in Manhattan as a shirt presser! I imagine his temper (famous) and arrogance lost him many jobs. I never met Elissa, the woman who fled Italy with him and after whom I am named. But I met Sylvia and Marie who were like mice...what else could they be with Ettore, and survive?"

Fourth part of inscription on "memorial:"
ILORO RISPETTIVI FIGLIE FRATELLI LUIGI ED ETTORE
[Their respective daughter's brothers Luigi and Ettore]
CON ANIMO COMOSSO E RICONOSCENTE
[with deeply affected and grateful]
POSERO
[heart placed]
UNA PRECE
[a prayer]
(see Alfonso Romagnano for 1st part, Francesca Zurlo for 2nd part, & Guilietta Romagnano for 3rd part)
Excerpt of message from Spence and Catherine Balestrieri Burton, translators: ... headstones tend to get a little flowery! ... It is always difficult to translate memorials and headstones because local dialects may have sayings that are locally used but not normally used in the language.

 

Post card (probably circa 1928 per passport):
Carissimo Luigi My Dearest Louis [LUIGI]
Sono a casa nostra [I AM HOME]
e un dolore [I HAVE PAIN]
Ma.... sono intrattative oggi sono stato al
cemitero [I AM NEGOTIATING WITH THE CEMETERY]
Cante saluti e famiglio [DEAR REGARDS TO FAMILY]
Aff. Ettore [YOURS TRULY ETTORE]

 

A photo, circa 1937, provided by Donna M. Romaine-Raftery, of a 'Dominic Romagnano' who she states is a "cousin." He appears to be in his 20's, has a receding hairline and a dimple in his chin. Written on the photo is; "A ziro Ettore xxx xxxxxx" and signed "D Romagnano" and dated "22 IV g 37" (or VI). {'A' means 'to' and 'Zio' means 'uncle'}. Another (undated but well before 1957) photo provided by Donna M. Romaine-Raftery shows Ettore standing with an unknown man about the same age as Ettore (possibly a little younger) with a receding hairline and a dimple in his chin.

SSN = 084-01-6202 (Issued in New York)

Died at Fordham Hospital, Bronx

Soundex = R525 "Romagnano" AFN: 1QKZ-P9R

 

He made a trip back to Postiglione in 1928. His passport says:
May 14th, Visto ai R. Consolato Generale d'italia
(on the same page smaller stamp; date 25 GIU [July] 1928)
and
(return to USA)
R.ISPETTORATO EMIGRAZIONE, NEL PORTO DI NAPOLI
[DATE] 12 SET [September] 1928
VISTO PARTIRE

He was 5 feet, 8 inches tall; dark brown hair; brown eyes

Per Alphonse; "My father was the youngest and firey (he was a problem - so they told me)."

 

Sources:

City of New York,
Department of Health,
Bureau of Records and Statistics, Certificate of Death,
No. 156-62-210078
 
Alphonse Romaine, Elaine-Elise Romaine, Catherine Casebeer
 
®14, ®25
 
Original Death Certificate
 
US Passport
 
A photo of the "Memorial" provided by Donna M. Romaine-Raftery
 
Social Security Death Index - 1994 Edition - Version 1.23

 

He married Elizabeth LOMBARDO, daughter of Thomas LOMBARD[I] & Fiore ZINGARELLA. Born Circa 1875 in Italy. Died 18 Apr 1936 in Bronx, NY. Buried 20 Apr 1936 in Ferncliff Cemetery, Hartsdale, NY. Occupation Housewife. aka Elissa, Elisa, Elise, DonnaLise.

 

Notes:

Excerpts from letter from Alphonse Romaine to Tony Romaine, dated 2 Feb 1994: [New York City] "That's where my father met my mother. He had cousins living in New York and he travled back and fourth, no doubt to see my mother. Once he married her, he brought her to Camden and then back to New York."

Had 4 children but 2 died (son Louis' Birth Cert.)
 
Elaine-Elise Romaine said first name was Elissa and Elise
 
Death Cert. states; lived in NY for 37 years (since 1899)
 

Excerpt of letter written by Elaine Romaine to Tony Romaine undated (circa 17 Aug 1994) "Ettore and Elissa had two boys. The other two sons mentioned were Elissa's by another marriage which she fled from ... [Italy] to America with Ettore. Elissa was called La Donna, ['the lady,' in Italian], by neighbors and by my mother who said she was red-headed, tall, the wife of someone rich from up north, and very educated."

Died at Fordham Hospital

AFN: 1QKZ-D5D

 

Sources:

City of New York,
Department of Health,
Bureau of Records and Statistics, Certificate of Death,
No. 31904-1935 4175
 
Son Louis' Birth Certificate
 
Alphonse Romaine, Elaine-Elise Romaine, Edward Romaine
 
A photo, circa 1908 with Alphonse, provided by Donna M. Romaine-Raftery

 


They had the following children:

21. i. Alphonse P. ROMAINE

22. ii. Louis "Aloisius" ROMAINE

 


Reference Note 14
®14
City Directories, Camden, New Jersey
1890 through 1916

 

Reference Note 25
®25
"The Ancestry of Nicodemo Romagnano of Postiglione" by Luigi Mendola;
Research of town records, in person, in town of Postiglione (SA), Italy with letter dated 27 Dec 1993;
2 Pedigree charts
3 supporting documents, certificates of birth and marriage, (Nicodemo, Angelo, Giuseppe)
2 Postiglione picture post cards

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