Life and Your Account


A 92-year-old, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
nursing home today. His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making
the move necessary.

After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. As he maneuvered his
walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny
room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.

"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
just been presented with a new puppy.

"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."

"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. "Happiness
is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or
not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ...
it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."

"It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice;
I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the
parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful
for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open
I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
Just for this time in my life."

"Yes old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put
in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the
bank account of memories!"

Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing.















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