The women of The South have been immortalized in many ways. Everything from Southern Belles to Steel Magnolias. The characteristics of a proper Southern lady have been described as one who acts dainty, delicate and in need of being protected.  One who might carry a parasol to protect her skin and avoid repulsive freckles. By the same token, she might be described as one of extraordinary strength, commitment and loyalty, and  the very foundation that holds Southern families together.  Never be deceived into believing a true Southern Belle is a fragile sort who cannot think for herself.  This would be to your un-doing!
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A Daughter of The South is a complex combination of many strengths.

They carry  children,  hardships,  and  burdens but they hold love, joy, and happiness.

They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry

They cry when they are happy and laugh  when they are nervous.

They go without new shoes so their children can have them.

They fight for what they believe in. They stand up  for injustice and volunteer  to work for good causes.

They vote for the person that will do  the best job for family issues.  They walk the extra mile to guarantee the best  schools for  their children and  the right  healthcare for their family. They write to the editor, their congressmen and to the "powers that be" for  things that  make for a better life for all.

They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.

Southern Women are honest, loyal, and  forgiving. They  are smart, knowing that knowledge is power.   Never putting aside  their softer side

A Southern Woman can make a romantic evening unforgettable.

Southern  Women strive to be the best for  their family, their friends, and for themselves.

They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.

They love unconditionally.

They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends do.

They are thrilled to hear about a birth or a new marriage.

Their hearts break when a friend dies.

They grieve profoundly at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no
strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken
heart, or mend an injured finger.

Southern Women come in all sizes, in all colors and in all shapes. They wear suits, jeans, and they wear uniforms.

They are  childcare workers, executives, attorneys, nurses, doctors, policewomen, girl scout leaders, stay-at-home moms and your friend and neighbor.  Sometimes these jobs overlap each other.

They live in homes, apartments, and even cabins.

They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care for you.

They give compassion and teach ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends.

They come to the aid of a friend, when all others leave.

The heart of a Southern Woman holds her family together.

The heart of a Southern Woman brings joy and hope for an even better tomorrow for the children of our children's children.

Southern Women are all of the above. True daughters of the South.

Thanks to two true Southern Women Deborah, from Alabama,  and Cheryl , from Tennessee,
for making me aware of the majority of the above attributes of a true Southern Woman.



 

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