Nancy, the mother, relates:
We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I sat Erik in a
high chair and noticed everyone was quietly eating and talking.
Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, "Hi there." He pounded his
fat baby hands on the high-chair tray. His eyes were wide with
excitement and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin. He wriggled and
giggled with merriment.
I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man with a
tattered rag of a coat; dirty, greasy and worn. His pants were baggy with
a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His
shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers
were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it
looked like a road map.
We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled. His hands
waved and flapped on loose wrists. "Hi there, baby; hi there, big boy. I
see ya, buster." The man said to Erik.
My husband and I exchanged looks, "What do we do?" Erik continued to
laugh and answer, "Hi, hi there." Everyone in the restaurant noticed and
looked at us and then at the man. The old geezer was creating a nuisance
with my beautiful baby.
Our meal came and the man began shouting from
across the room, "Do ya know patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey,
look, he knows peek-a-boo."
Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was
obviously drunk. My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence;
all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the
admiring skid-row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments.
We finally got through the meal and headed for the door. My husband went
to pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot.
The old man
sat poised between me and the door. "Lord, just let me out of here
before he speaks to me or Erik," I prayed. As I drew closer to the man,
I turned my back trying to side-step him and avoid any air he might be
breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in
a baby's "pick-me-up" position. Before I could stop him, Erik had
propelled himself from my arms to the man's. Suddenly a very old smelly
man and a very young baby consummated their love relationship. Erik in
an act of total trust, love and submission laid his tiny head upon the
man's ragged shoulder.
The man's eyes closed, and I saw tears hover
beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain and hard
labor - gently, so gently, cradled my baby's bottom and stroked his back.
No two beings have ever loved so deeply for so short a time. I stood
awestruck.
The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms for a moment,
and then his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm
commanding voice, "You take care of this baby." Somehow I managed, "I
will,' from a throat that contained a stone.
He pried Erik from his
chest-unwillingly, longingly, as though he were in pain. I received my
baby, and the man said, "God bless you, ma'am, you've given me my
Christmas gift." I said nothing more than a muttered thanks.
With Erik
in my arms, I ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying
and holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, "My God, My God,
forgive me."
I had just witnessed Christ's love shown through the innocence of a tiny
child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw a soul, and
a mother who saw a suit of clothes. I was a Christian who was blind,
holding a child who was not. I felt it was God asking: "Are you willing to
share your son for a moment?" --
when He shared His for all eternity.
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