We are men and women.  It almost always matters which we 
are.  Men and women are aggressive.  Their regard for each 
other is clouded by grudges, suspicions, fears, needs, desires, 
and nacrissistic postures.  There's no scrubbing them out.  The 
best you can hope for is domestication, as in football, rock, 
humor, happy marriage, and a good prose style.  Jokes trade on 
offensiveness;  PC is not a funny dialect.  The unconscious is 
a joker, a sexist and aggressive creature.  Our sexuality has 
always been scandalous.

_Raritan_ XI:3 p.103 ``The Neurotic's Dictionary'' 
(review of feminism in The Random House Webster's College Dictionary).