Messages
and Announcements
Passing
of Glenn Rogers

We are deeply saddened to announce that our dear friend and classmate
Glenn Rogers departed this life on November 5, 2008.
His
brother Alan sent in the following obituary, as it appeared in
the Lawrence Eagle.
Burlington
- Glenn Rhodes Rogers, 69, of Newburyport, died Wednesday, November
5, 2008, at the Lahey Clinic after a courageous battle with cancer.
Born
in Newton, Massachusetts on January 16, 1939, he was the son of
Kenneth W. and Eleanor B. (Rhodes) Rogers.
During
his life, Glenn enjoyed mountain climbing, hiking, and camping
in the White Mountains with his family and close friends. He also
loved traveling throughout the country by train. He was a wonderful
horticulturist, and took pride in his gardens. One of his favorite
activities was being with his grandchildren whether it was watching
their sports or swimming with them in the backyard pool.
He
attended Newton schools and graduated from Newton High School
in 1957. He was a member of the United States Army Reserve. While
stationed at Fort Chaffee, Arkansas he was deployed to support
the implementation of the integration of Little Rock Central High
School. Upon release from active duty he attended Newton Junior
College, and transferred to Boston University where he earned
a Bachelor of Science in Education in 1961 and a Master’s
Degree in Elementary Administration in 1965. He began teaching
fifth grade in the Winthrop Elementary School in Hamilton in 1961,
and in 1963 was appointed Principal of the Cutler Elementary School,
and later served as Principal of both the Cutler and Winthrop
Elementary Schools in Hamilton-Wenham. He retired from education
in 1994.
He
is survived by his three beloved daughters, Renee Rogers of Mesa,
Arizona; Jennifer Howard and her husband Charles of Newburyport,
and Christine Ellis and her husband Brian of South Portland, Maine;
a brother, Alan Rogers and his wife Valerie of Northfield, Massachusetts;
his former wife, Christel Rogers of Newburyport; and his life
partner of more than twenty years, Cheryl Sweeney and her children
Ann and Matthew of Newburyport; four grandchildren, and two Nephews.
Friends
and family are invited to a memorial service to be held at the
Belleville Congregational Church on High Street in Newburyport,
MA. on Saturday, November 15th at 12:00 p.m. Burial will be at
the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, donations may
be made to the Merrimack Valley Hospice, the Hospice House.
Hope
Heenan Berg sent in an email message which instantly recalls the
deep affection we all felt for Glenn:
I
am so deeply sorry to learn of Glenn's passing. How wonderful
it was to have seen him at the Angier reunion, Jim...I remember
telling him what beautiful blue eyes he had...how glad I am to
have had that tiny bit of time with him... Thank you for letting
me know. I am so very sorry...what a gentleman he was.
In sympathy.
Hope Heenan Berg NHS '57
Passing
of Frank Forrest
We thank
Frank's daughter Heather for writing the following appreciation
of her father's life, and Glenn Rogers for sending it in to
us.

My father
Frank A. Forrest Jr., formerly of 165 Neshobe Road, Waban,
died unexpectedly of a heart attack on June 20, 2007 in Taos,
New Mexico. Married to Mary Jane(LeVangie) Forrest for 41 years,
he has three children, Francis III, Brett and Heather, whom
he raised in South Weymouth, Massachusetts. My brothers and
I remember how fondly Dad spoke of Angier School; it must have
been a nourishing, supportive environment for him.
After graduating from Angier School Frank went on to Newton High School. Upon
graduation he attended Norwich University in Vermont where he graduated with
a degree in business and a commission as an officer. After two years in Southern
Germany during the Berlin crisis as a tank commander in the US Army, he returned
to the US to join the family's confectionery business. After holding various
sales and leadership roles, he eventually rose to the head of sales for Fannie
Farmer.
Frank's stint
as an officer in Germany inspired wanderlust, and for the rest
of his life he traveled the globe extensively. Even during
the Cold War, when traveling was largely prohibited, Frank
found a way to bring his family to visit Yugoslavia, Bulgaria,
Czechoslovakia, and Hungary. He often used American chocolate
bars at border crossings to help facilitate the red tape.
An adventurer
in many senses, Frank built a vacation house himself for his
family at Lake Winnipesaukee in New Hampshire and enjoyed hiking
and camping in the White Mountains. Many of his greatest adventures
were with his best friends from Angier
School. Throughout Frank's entire life his Angier friends David
Raab, Glenn Rogers and Michael Moloney were like our family and
we call them uncles.
Always fascinated
with culture and history and proud to be an American, Frank
fittingly spent his last days on a transcontinental road trip
exploring the landscapes, museums and pueblos of the US. Frank
was above all a compassionate man who would do anything for
you. He was a devoted father and husband for 41 years.
He was thrilled with his young grandchildren Eva, 3, and Theodore
Francis, 5 months,
and spent many hours rocking and feeding them even at four in
the morning. Frank was a great friend and family man. I credit
influential environments such as Angier
School for having such a positive impact in the early development
of my Dad's outstanding character.
— Heather
Forrest Weiland
November
reunion page
There
is now a separate page for our planned Waban reunion in November,
which you can access right here. It
contains the schedule for the weekend and we will update the page
as the time approaches.
"Wabanites
reunite" Yahoo website
I recently
received the following message from the moderator
of a new and wildly successful Yahoo groups website which exchanges
messages and photos among a generation of Waban schoolkids
who were leaving Angier about the same time we were leaving
NHS:
Hi Jim!
I emailed
you a few years ago about your website which I enjoy visiting
periodically. I was at Angier
from 1957-1964, a little after you. Anyway, your website
was an inspiration to me and Lenore Borowsky and Wendy Flaschner. We
have set up a Yahoo website called Wabanites Reunite which
is specifically for those of us who were in my grade (and
includes those who moved away or moved in during our time
at Angier).
We have
36 members in six weeks!! I think you can read
the posts without being a member but you can’t see
the photos. We’ve found
3 of our teachers (Miss Isaacs, Mr. Bruno and Mrs. Tobin). Mrs.
Blonder (now deceased) was one of our teachers and was related
to me.
I thought you should know that you planted the seed to show
us we could do it too!
Thanks!
Sue

This is the Eliot Oak which was in my backyard!!! (half
of it anyway. The other half was in the backyard of the house
behind us, on Collins Road).
Photos
of Fritz Richmond
Here are
a couple photos I received to remember Fritz, who died November
2005. The first is a poster from a memorial concert held in
Tokyo in April 2006, and the second from an issue of the
Broadside, a Boston folkie magazine from the 60's.


Angier
school class 1940? 1941?
I regret
that I totally forgot to post this picture of an early Angier
kindergarten or first grade class. It was sent in by Pamela
Webber White (dickpam
@comcast.net), who says:
"I'm guessing at some of the names. I
did not put them in order. Does anyone recognize themselves or
their classmates?
Barbara Heath, Kathy Cantor, Suzanne Van Mater, Barney Stames,
Billy Newton, Margo Hunt. Norman Strickland."
— Jim
M.

For
Karen, with love...
Before her
family moved to Waban Avenue, Karen Snow lived on Dwhinda Road,
two houses behind me. She was my first “best friend.”
She taught me to ride my bike, though I was never able to master
her own bike, a tiny, ridiculously wobbly contraption whose wheels
were no more than eight inches in diameter. Today it would probably
be considered too dangerous to sell. But Karen flitted about at
ease on it. I first admired Karen’s athletic prowess. She
was good at whatever sport she attempted. When we played checkers
together, she always beat me – she was so smart. We drew
and painted too, but her work was far better than mine. We climbed
trees (our parents were unaware) and chatted about our dreams.
We roller-skated on Dwhinda Road and collected scrapes, bumps
and bruises. Karen had some pretty impressive ones I recall, because
she had an adventurous spirit and was no wimp. As a child I mostly
appreciated Karen’s intelligence and skill at games. Only
years later did I realize how pretty she was. Just have a look
at her senior picture, so lovely, so serene.

Oddly, Karen
did not shine particularly at school. In second or third grade,
she repeated a year, which put her into our class of ’57.
She had some mysterious difficulty with reading that would probably
be instantly labeled dyslexia today. She never mentioned it to
me. She was not the type to share her worries with her friends.
Actually she was quite reserved and retiring, the type that hides
her light under a bushel.
Karen is connected
with several of my earliest discoveries about life. My first memory
of real shame and guilt is the day I broke a decorative china
jug perched on a shelf in her living room. I knew I should never
have touched it, and my anguish was extreme. Karen’s mother
didn’t scold me though, because, I now imagine, she understood
my dismay. I knew my own mother would have made a real fuss about
me breaking an “antique.” That day I discovered parents
were different in their reactions. Nevertheless it was embarrassing
and difficult for me to show my face in that house for quite some
time. And the sad, guilty memory abides with me to this day.
One day when
we were six or seven, we were standing chatting in my backyard
when Karen’s big brother Johnny erupted on the scene and
knocked me over from behind. Then, chortling and triumphant, he
rode over me on his bicycle and was gone. I was stunned, then
hurt, not physically, but emotionally. I had not provoked him
in any way. I had never experienced such gratuitous meanness before.
Today, whenever I hear talk of children’s cruelty, this
incident pops into mind. This was early proof that children are
not necessarily sweet and should never be taken for “noble
savages.” I learned to be wary of big brothers, although
I worshipped my own. But you couldn’t trust everyone. It
was one of life’s little lessons. Years later I mentioned
my misadventure to my mother, who chuckled and replied, “Oh,
yes, Johnny Snow was the neighborhood scamp.” Well, John,
if you read this some day, you needn’t worry, I have long
since forgiven you. Little boys do grow up and, I have discovered,
like good wine, they usually improve with age.
When we were
in junior high school, Karen’s parents invited me to spend
a weekend at the old farmhouse they used to rent for the summer.
It lay isolated at the end of a long dirt road in the backwoods
of southern New Hampshire – the sort of place Robert Frost
used to write about. The little sash windows had white lace curtains.
There were no neighbors, and I felt as if we might be living a
hundred years earlier. There was a whiff of Brigadoon about the
place. It remains an enchanting memory. Karen and I swam and canoed
on the little lake at the bottom of the hill. The rest of the
time we explored the various ramshackle outbuildings full of abandoned
agricultural equipment. This was my idea of Adventure. No one
had set foot inside those buildings in years. We hoped to discover
a treasure or a skeleton behind every closed door, but all we
found was junk, mostly bizarre farming implements whose use we
tried to guess. Everything was encased in rust and dust. When
the weekend was over, I asked Karen why she had never explored
those buildings before. She replied frankly, “It wouldn’t
have been any fun alone.” At first I was puzzled. Then suddenly
I realized she was right. Unwittingly Karen had just pointed out
the value of friendship. I think of Karen’s remark every
time I look at the beach towel my daughter was given when she
was little. It says: “everything is twice as nice when you
share it with a friend.”
As Karen and
I were perfectly compatible, we never once quarreled. We just
enjoyed each other’s company. Amusingly we even shared the
same boyfriend. Not at the same time, I hasten to add! When Bruce
Harper moved to Waban in fifth grade, he and I became fast friends
and we had play dates at each other’s houses, much to our
mothers’ amusement. And then there were Mrs. Fergusson’s
weekly ballroom dancing classes to encourage the little romance.
Later, in junior high and high school, Bruce dated Karen –
for several years, I think.
Late in high
school, I invited Karen and four other classmates to our summer
place for a long weekend. It was our last get-together before
heading off to college. I have a photograph of the other four
girls sunbathing and chatting on the end of the dock – and
Karen floating dreamily alone in an inner tube, some distance
out in the lake. Karen was drifting away from everyone else…..
After that weekend her mother told mine she was worried about
Karen withdrawing from her friends.
After Newton
High, Karen attended the Boston Museum of Fine Arts School. I
was told she met her husband in the psychiatrist’s office,
where they were both being treated. They were married, had a son,
and moved to Cape Cod. I was told Karen was a tender, attentive
mother. When the child was eight years old, Karen’s husband
murdered her and was locked up in an insane asylum. Big brother
John took the child under his wing.
Karen had
almost everything: brains, beauty, artistic talent, athletic ability,
and modesty. She seemed to have been dealt all the right cards
but one, her mental problem. Unfortunately an additional wild
card then fell into her lap, and fate would not allow her to fulfill
the promise within her. And here is the last lesson I have learned
from Karen’s example (among many, many others): life is
never ever fair.
But sometimes
it is glaringly unfair. Karen deserved far better than she got.
I was very fond of her, and I shall never forget her.
—
Nancy Derr
Polin, 1/20/2006
Obituary
for Patricia Rak Harrison — Boston Globe: November 21, 2005

While Laos's
civil war raged in the streets of its capital city Vientiane in
the 1960s, Patricia (Rak) Crane Harrison huddled under the furniture
in the concrete residence of the US ambassador with other workers
from the US Agency for International Development to protect themselves
from the gun battles outside.
In 1970, in
Amman, Jordan, she and her two small daughters cowered under the
bed for a week, caught in the crossfire of bullets during the
Black September fighting between Palestinian guerrillas and the
Jordanian army.
''Throughout
her career with USAID, you knew they were just about to go into
war because Pat moved there," Karen Rak of Belfast, Maine,
said of her adventurous sister who spent years with the USAID,
both as employee and as the wife of an agency official.
Mrs. Harrison
— who lived in Senegal, Afghanistan, Jordan, Nepal, and
Zaire as a Foreign Service wife — later became a presence
on Martha's Vineyard with her gourmet catering service wearing
her signature red chef's hat.
She died Nov.
9 at her Vineyard Haven home after a four-month battle with cancer.
She was 70.
''Pat was
the best kind of representative of the United States abroad,"
said Carol Corillon of Chevy Chase, Md., a friend of 35 years
who met Mrs. Harrison in Zaire. ''Pat loved adventure, travel,
and other cultures. She reached out to people everywhere.
What struck
me when I first met her was how elegant she was. Tall, slender,
hair pinned up, and Old Worldly. She dressed for dinner. She had
this great style, yet she could get down on her knees to muck
up stuff that had fallen out of the garbage disposal."
Laos was Mrs.
Harrison's first assignment with USAID. Though she had been offered
executive positions — she was fluent in French and knowledgeable
in cultural anthropology — she chose to do secretarial work,
her sister said. After Laos, she was assigned to Senegal, where
she met Jacob L. Crane III, a USAID director, former naval officer,
and a world-class sailor. They were married on Cape Cod in 1962
and returned to Senegal.
Their daughter,
Lisa, would have been born in Senegal, but, due to pregnancy complications,
Mrs. Harrison traveled to Boston and delivered the baby at Massachusetts
General Hospital. ''We returned to Senegal soon after, nd almost
immediately my mother was invited to a party by the royal family,"
said Lisa Crane of Nokesville, Va. ''She attended carrying me."
Their second daughter, Nicole, was born in Afghanistan and from
there, the family moved to a posting in Jordan.
Nicole Crane
of LaSelva Beach, Calif., recalled the fighting in Jordan in 1970.
''Dad was away from home working to get people evacuated, and
my sister and I were at home with Mom," she said. ''We had
to hide under the bed or a table for about a week to protect ourselves
from the bullets whizzing through our house. My mother used to
crawl out to get us meals."Continued...
When there was a respite in the shooting, as is the custom in
the Arab world, so people can pray or bury their dead, the three
would come out from under the bed. ''During one of those times,"
Nicole said, ''we went up to the roof, and on the stairway, a
bullet grazed my head." Mrs. Harrison and her daughters were
evacuated and flown to Cyprus, where they lived on the family's
36-foot ketch, and Mrs. Harrison home-schooled her two daughters
until her husband was able to join them.When he did, he sailed
his family to Lebanon, where they remained for about nine months.
His next posting
was Nepal, where Mrs. Harrison was able to satisfy her adventurous
spirit and her love for nature by trekking in the Himalayas. She
and her children once hiked the 18,000 feet to the Mount Everest
base camp, with yaks, sherpas, and porters, Nicole Crane said.
After Mr.
Crane's death in 1980, Mrs. Harrison returned to work for the
USAID in Haiti, where she became a scuba diver and instructor,
while her children attended school in the United States. She retired
from government service in 1988 and moved to Vineyard Haven. In
1990, she married Lawrence Harrison, author, Tufts University
professor, and a former USAID official.
Mrs. Harrison
was born in Iowa, to Ian Paley, a psychiatrist, and Elsie (Tooze)
Rak, an author of books on dyslexia. She grew up in the Waban
section of Newton. She was adventurous from a young age, said
her younger brother Charles of Jamaica, Vt.
''Pat always
had this high energy," he said. ''When she was 16 and I was
only 2, she took me for a wild ride on the Cape in her Model A
Ford. "Mrs. Harrison graduated from Mills College in Oakland,
Calif., and did graduate work in French studies at the University
of Paris and in cultural anthropology at American University in
Washington, D.C.
In 1993 and
1994, she attended Cordon Bleu schools in Ottawa and in London,
and she apprenticed at Lydia Shire's Pignoli Restaurant in Boston
in summer 1994. The following spring she started the Vineyard
Haute Cuisine, catering weddings and special events. For some
of the weddings, the bride would ride in a yellow 1931 Model A
Phaeton, once owned by the royal family of Nepal and never removed
from its cartons there. Mrs. Harrison had it shipped home and
assembled.
In 2000, Mrs.
Harrison catered a fund-raiser for Hillary Rodham Clinton at the
Vineyard home of movie mogul Harvey Feinstein. Mrs. Harrison catered
some 75 weddings in 11 years, some on beaches and in meadows.
Kathy Joyce Costanza of Oak Bluffs, one of Mrs. Harrison's staff,
spoke of her ''amazing work ethic." ''She taught us how to
be sensitive to the needs of people who sought our services,"
Costanza said.When Mrs. Harrison became ill, her staff carried
on for her.
When she was
in her 50s, Mrs. Harrison took up golf and, her husband said,
had a hole-in-one at Farm Neck Golf Club in Oak Bluffs in 2001.
Last December, Mrs. Harrison and Carol Corillon went to Tahiti,
where they attended a church service on a distant atoll.
''Mother was
such a remarkable person, but she was completely nonpresumptuous,"
Nicole Crane said. ''She took up so much space without asking
for it and ended up being the center of people's worlds."
Besides her
husband, her two daughters, her sister, and her brother, Mrs.
Harrison leaves three stepdaughters, Julia Harrison of Wilton,
Conn., Beth Harrison of Lincoln, and Amy Harrison of Ridgewood,
N.J., and 11 grandchildren.
A memorial
service is being planned for the spring.
Obituary
for John (Fritz) Richmond — From
KATU, a Portland TV station, November 22, 2005

Fritz Richmond,
a folk musician considered one of the world's finest players of
the jug and washtub bass, died of lung cancer Sunday. He was 66.
Born in Newton, Mass., Richmond became a key figure in the Boston
folk music scene, where he worked as the house bassist at Club
47. Drawing on his expertise as a U.S. Army helicopter mechanic,
he strung the washtub bass with a steel cable, turning it into
a usable instrument. To play it, he developed his own steel-and-rawhide
gloves.
He won national attention in 1963 with the Jim Kweskin Jug Band,
where he learned that he'd be playing the jug as well as washtub
bass. None of them knew the instrument firsthand and learned how
to play it from scratchy old records. Bandmate Geoff Muldaur said
Richmond figured it out: "You go into it thinking it's this
comical jug routine. Then you realize that he's putting real emotion
across."
He was a trendsetter, too, said Muldaur. It was Richmond who came
up with the Lovin' Spoonful's name and first wore the granny glasses
with tiny colored lenses later favored by folks such as John B.
Sebastian and Roger McGuinn. While most wore the glasses to be
trendy, Richmond did it was to hide the fact that the exertion
of blowing the jug made him go cross-eyed.
In the early 1970s, he moved to Los Angeles and engineered albums
for Jackson Browne, Bonnie Raitt and others. He moved to Portland
in 1977, but still taught recording classes and played in the
Metropolitan Jug Band and Fritz Richmond's Barbecue Orchestra.
He made appearances on "A Prairie Home Companion" and
continued to tour with John Sebastian's J-Band and with Muldaur.
The Smithsonian has one of his washtub basses in its collection.
He played his last notes in public with Muldaur at the Boston
Folk Festival last September, shortly after he'd been diagnosed
with lung cancer. "I gave him a solo," Muldaur said,
"and he just nailed it. He didn't tell me that he was sick
until after the gig because he didn't want to ruin it for me."
Message
from Esther Jacobson
I feel like
I'm looking at all of you from a great distance...of time and
of space. Nancy's photographs really hit me: I could just taste
those days, with all their pleasures and bitter-sweet memories.
I'm so sorry
to hear the news about John Griswold, moved to see the pics of
Ardith.
I don't usually
like to put myself forward in a photo, but maybe it wouldn't hurt
to do so now. The enclosed photo was taken a couple of years ago
while I was working in the Altai Mountains of Mongolia...actually,
I've been working there, summers, for the last 11 years and will
go back this year to survey for a new project.

My husband,
Gary Tepfer, is on the far left, I'm the wild looking one third
from left (big wind, not really such big hair!), and the others
are all colleagues or dear friends (Tuvinians). The mountains
in the background are Tavan Bogd; they mark the border between
Mongolia, China, and Russia.
Take care,
perhaps one of these days I'll be able to see some of you in person.
Affectionately,
Esther
Peter
Brandt uncovered
"A mad
dash from Angier to today:
Kimball Union
Academy, Swarthmore College ‘62 BA – History, New
England Telephone (living in Fitchburg, Salem, Northampton, Shrewsbury,
and Needham). To AT&T in New York then New Jersey (’73-’77
– lived in Convent Station, NJ), moved back to Andover with
NET - Boston. In ‘83 to Chappaqua, NY, to work for NYNEX
in White Plains and NYC. (Never became a Yankees’ fan!)
In 1996, retired as Marketing Director from NYNEX and moved to
Charleston, SC; haven’t looked back.
Along the
way: Married. One daughter (also married) is in LA - Associate
PR Director for the LA Philharmonic Orchestra, and delivering
our first grandchild in August! ? One son, in NYC, left movie
production after 9/11, now a paralegal.
Since retiring:
I started my own consulting business, associated with a national
research firm, doing new product and other specialty market research.
Both my wife and I are involved in Charleston volunteer activities
ranging from its Symphony to helping maintain the historic character
of this unique city. (See www.savethecity.org, that’s our
gate on the home page.)
But the most
fun: We were in the right place at the right time, met the person
running the shipboard guest computer instruction program for Crystal
Cruises and have been fortunate to have seen lots of new places
around the world and meet fascinating people. Since Crystal took
that program in-house, we’ve been sailing and teaching on
two other cruise lines, Celebrity and Oceania. What a blast!
Small world
story: Sailing in the Caribbean, we were seated randomly at a
dinner table with two other couples; one was a mother/daughter
couple from Boston. It turned out that the interior decorator
daughter had finished redecorating my old house at 41 Ridge Road
just the week before! (Good thing, I know it needed it!)"
— from
Peter Brandt, 5/6/05
Passing
of John Griswold
It is with
great sadness that I advise you that John Griswold passed away
yesterday (January 26th) after a long battle with cancer. For
those who visited John at Karen's two summer's ago, we had hopes
that things were going well and John was in remission, but this
fall the cancer returned. As soon as I have further information,
I will forward it.
— from
Eric O'Brien, 1/27/2005
John
(Jack) O'Connell Uncovered
I don't remember
how I came across your web page, but it brought back a lot of
memories. Our family moved to Newton Highlands in 1943. We lived
at 37 Endicott St. which was off Woodward St. about a block from
the Waban line. Although I attended the Hyde School, Weeks Junior
High and then Newton High School, many of my friends lived in
Waban. I can still remember hanging out in Waban Square, Rhodes
Pharmacy and the soda fountain, Cummins cleaners, Waban News,
the deli around the corner, Waban Market and the baseball games
at Angier School. I can still remember Mass every Sunday at St.
Philip Neri Church.
After an Honorable
Discharge from the Air Force, I spent four years at and graduated
from Boston University with a major in statistics and a minor
in economics. Started to work on a graduate degree but never finished.
Time to make a living I guess. Went to work for International
Harvester Co. for a while. Decided corporate life was not for
me. Eventually ended up owning four truck dealerships, a truck
leasing company, several commercial properties, and a finance
company catering to prime accounts.
On the personal
side I got married, we had three children and so far they have
given us two grandchildren with two more on the way. I retired
early leaving the children to run the companies. Spend the summers
in Connecticut and the winters in Southern California when not
traveling.
I would like
to hear from old friends and anyone else who would like to romp
the old stomping grounds again.
Jack O'Connell
— January, 2005
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