A Gentleman's Code

The honor of a gentleman demands the adherence to a Code of Honor.  The gentleman is the 21st century knight.  He upholds the values and principles that society has admired and held dear since the days of chivalry in the legendary court of King Arthur.  He is the defender of the defenseless and the champion of justice, or he is not a gentleman.

A Gentleman......

Manages his temper.  He does not exhibit anger, fear, hate, embarrassment, ardor, or hilarity in public, and yet, is capable of expressing his emotions appropriately in any venue.

Takes ownership of his emotions, reactions, and decisions.

Accepts responsibility for the consequences, intended and unintended, of his decisions.

Does not discuss his family affairs with those outside of his family.

Does not speak more than casually about his girl friend.

Is temperate in the use of alcohol.  He does not call upon a lady, nor conduct business, if he is affected by alcohol.

Does not call out to a lady from afar.

Never discusses the merits or demerits of a lady.

Does not mention names exactly.

Does not discuss the cost of things.

Does not borrow money from a friend, except in dire need.  He recognizes that money borrowed is a debt of honor, and must be repaid as promptly as possible.

Recognizes that debts incurred by a deceased parent, sibling, or grown child are assumed by honorable men as a debt of honor.

Does not display his wealth, money, or possessions.

Does not turn his manners on and off.

Treats every man and woman with respect, courtesy, and honor, no matter what their social position might be.

Does not slap strangers on the back, nor so much as lay a finger on a lady.

Does not "lick the boots of those above" nor "kick the face of those below" him on the social ladder.

Does not take advantage of another's helplessness, or ignorance.

Assumes that no gentleman will take advantage of him.

Respects the reserves and boundaries of others, but likewise demands that others respect those which are his.

Keeps himself physically strong and healthy within the limitations of his own abilities and disabilities.

Does not succumb to the current whims of modern culture to live alternative life styles which cannot be justified within the mores of the ancient religious teachings and scriptures.

Acknowledges his duty to his Creator to maintain a respectable demeanor, and to treat all creation with honor and respect.

Becomes what he wills to be.