Letter from Sallie Moina Shanahan Freeze to her neice Beulah "Billie" Shanahan Murrie

The following was written by Sallie Shanahan Freeze [Mrs. Dan F.] and mailed to me April 18, 1962. Signed Beulah Shanahan Murrie [Billie] ]



    My father, Michael William Shanahan, was born September 29, 1841 in Cork
County, Limerick Ireland (Irish Free State near Belfast). He had two
brothers and one sister. Their names were Dennis, Maggie and Henry.
Henry drowned in a river near his grandparents home when he was quite
young. My father's parents having died in an outbreak of plague, the
grandparents took charge of the orphans. (Let me say right here that my
sister Lena remembered our father telling her about his climbing around
on the castle walls--am not sure if it was his parents or grandparents home.)
My recollection is that my father came to this country when he was fourteen
years old. [Dennis Potter Shanahan thought he was sixteen years of age. BM]
    He rebelled against Catholicism and left his home. I still don't know when,
where or how he got an eduction--but he got it. I don't know much about his
military life either, but know he served his adopted country, and was wounded
and that he had some very dear, close friends that he made during that time
--lifelong friends. One was his lieutenant, Robert McCarthy whom we were
taught to call "Uncle Bob" and who visited us during a reunion of the old
soldiers when I was a very little girl (some years after Papa's death.)
    And a dear little lady, who helped take care of Papa when he was wounded. She
was also, our Aunt "Aunt Sophia."1 Both of these friends wrote to us through
the years and often times sent us boxes of Christmas gifts. (I remember Brother
(your Dad D. P. Shanahan) gathered a box of holly, with red berries on it and
mistletoe and sent to the McCarthys for Christmas. They thought that was
the grandest thing that ever happened as they didn't have anything of that
sort there.

Back to my father. I don't remember much about him but he and Mama were
married at Senatobia, Mississippi on November 15, 1868. Papa was then
27 years old. He taught school for a living. The terms in those days were
very short and the pay not much either. In between school times he tried
to farm. But he was a scholar, not a farmer and was not successful at it.
He died at the age of 47--on May 26, 1887. When I was three years old
about the only thing I remember about him was that he was sick a long time
and his bed was near the fireplace in the little house where I was born.
I also remember that he carried me about in his arms after I had burned
my feet--while Mama and a cousin fixed something to put on them.

Papa and Mama are both buried in Palestine Cemetery (Methodist) about
10 miles East of Coldwater (Luby is also buried there) Emmett and Nora
Shanahan Phillips and my husband Dan F. Freeze are also buried there and
where I too, will be some day.

My mother, Sallie Margaret Potter Shanahan loved our father, Michael William
Shanahan very devotedly and never got over his death. She lived a widow
for 35 years. To us she was perfect, kind and gentle, loveable, quiet,
reserved and everything a human can be on this earth. Pure in heart and
mind, she was a devout Christian. Sister Lena married and moved to Texas
when she was young. That left Mama and three children. Brother (Dennis)
Married August 1900; then Nora married Jan. 12, 1901, then I married
August 18, 1901. All three within a year. She made her home with Nora
and Emmett for a few years. But when Dan and I returned to Mississippi
(after 5 years in Texas) she made her home with us the last 9 or 10 years of her
life. She dies March 10, 1921.


Notes:

1Sophia A. Ham, born c1845 in TN, the daughter of Susan S. Moore and [?] Ham. Mr. Ham's given name and the date of Susan S. Moore and his marriage is unknown at this time. Sophia does however, have a sibling named William A. Ham. In Jul of 1850 Sophia's mother marries for the 2nd time to Andrew Jackson Howard and they are found on the 1850 Hardeman County TN census living in the house of Sophia's grandfather, William A. Moore. The Howard family then moves to DeSoto County MS. It is here in 1860 that Sophia A. Ham first meets Michael William Shanahan. She is around 14 or 15 and he is 19; Michael is a newly arrived immigrant and is living in the house of Sophia's Step-father A. J. Howard. Michael not only lives with A. J. Howard and his family he is also employed by him as a salesman in his store in Senatobia. Seven years later on 30 Jan 1867 Sophia marries Leander "Lee" Slaughter (son of John and Isabella Slaughter) in DeSoto County MS. Sophia and her husband "Lee" migrate to Caverna in Hart County Kentucky. It is while Sophia and her husband Lee are there in Hart Co Kentucky that Michael writes a letter that he addresses to his "sister" (but Michael doesn't mean his 'real' sister Margaret "Maggie" Anne Shanahan, he means Sophie Ham) in which Michael bids his sister to tender "his 'fraternal' regards to Lee". In this letter Michael also speaks of Sophia's mother who has recently died. Sophia has quite a few half-siblings (Susan Adelia "Delia" Howard, Laura Jessica Howard, Mary A. Howard, Martha E. Howard, and Albert Sidney Howard) who are also mentioned in this letter. In addition, Sophia's two sisters-in-law Theoclis Slaughter (wife of J. G. Hardy) and Cyndasilla "Dink" Slaughter (who later marries [?] Richardson) are also mentioned in this letter as "Mrs. Hardy" and "Miss Dink" respectively. The mysterious "Dr." to whom Michael also refers to in this 1868 letter is none other than Andrew Jackson Howard. Although A. J. Howard is listed in the 1860 census as being a Merchant, by the 1870 DeSoto County Census we find that he is listed as a Physician. Dr. Andrew Jackson Howard remarries after the death of his first wife (Susan S. Moore Ham) to Jane Garrett on 5 Feb 1868 and sometime after 1870 the family migrates to Texas. Sophia A. Ham Slaughter and her husband Lee also migrate to Texas. Read Michael's 1868 letter to his 'sister' Sophie for further information.


Transcription Notes: Transcribed March 2005 by K. L. Rhodes from a typed copy made by Beulah "Billie" Pearl Shanahan Murrie to whom the original handwritten letter was sent. Billie inserted notes/comments into the letter as she transcribed/typed it and enclosed her comments in parens. Since Sallie apparently also used parens in her original, I've taken the liberty of changing Billie's parens to brackets [ ] but have left the parens (  ) around the phrases that I believe were originally handwritten that way by Sallie. View Billie's typed transcription of this letter. Since this is a transciption of a transcription I cannot vouch for its accuracy as I have never had the opportunity to see Sallie's original handwritten letter. If this original still exists, it is most likely in the possession of Beulah "Billie" Pearl Shanahan Murrie's son Dan Murrie in Texas.
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