How do you stand  being with your kids all day?

          I get asked this question all the time.  I have a hard time answering this question!  I want to come back with "how can you stand being away from your kids all day?" but I think the person would take my answer the wrong way..

          Kids aren't perfect! You and I know that. Mine are loud, run through the house, makes tons of mess all day with their "creative pursuits" and life is hard sometimes! I think we have much more mess at the end of the day to clean up than families who send their kids to school and it is NEVER quiet around here!

          But I have so much fun being part of their learning! I actually get to guide and watch as they acquire knowledge and skills. I feel very blessed that I am able to be a part of their education.  I can stand the noise and mess. The benefits are wonderful!



But let's be realistic. It takes most of my time and I have to be very organized (which doesn't come naturally to me.)

         At an adoption class my husband and I attended, one speaker gave us a huge help with a system she used (THANK YOU RUBY!!!).   By 8:30 am my children have to complete certain tasks. Their allowance is deducted by $.25 for any task they miss. By noon there are other tasks that must be completed.  We also have deadlines at 5:00 pm and 9:00 pm.    To see our task schedule (it works!!!) click here



 

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