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The second Fin De Siecle, and into the 21st Century.

The idea of elegance, of form following graceful function, a mode of style which appears timeless, may carry us through the new millennium.  Here's hoping that we cherish our history and never forget the lessons of the past. While life may not always be fair, let us have the courage and wisdom to acknowledge that it is up to us to write our own future.

Follow your own fashion.

 


 

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Desiderata
Latin for "things to be desired"

Go placidly amidst the noise and haste
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and
listen to others, even the dull and ignorant;
for they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
for they are vexations to the spirit. If you
compare yourself with others, you may
become vain or bitter, for there will always be
greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your
plans. Keep interested in your own career,
however humble; it is a real possession in the
changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution
in your business affairs, for the world is full
of trickery. But let this not blind you to what
virtue there is; many persons strive for high
ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign
affection. Neither be cynical about love; for
in the face of aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in
sudden misfortune. But do not distress
yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears
are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline be gentle
with yourself. You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars; you have
a right to be here. And whether or not it is
clear to you, no doubt the universe is
unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever
you conceive Him to be. And whatever your
labors and aspirations, in the noisy
confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all the sham, drudgery and broken
dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.


Max Ehrmann, 1927

 

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