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Following is a list of questions designed to help you determine whether or not your future leaders would benefit from the jump-start that only a coach can provide: People who are stuck in phase one, Maxwell argues, don't grow because they don't even realize they have much to learn. However, if you've reached a point in your career where you at least have a sense of what you don't know, a coach can provide a lot of guidance in attaining the necessary skills and knowledge. |
Is
there a gap between where you are and where you'd like
to be? If
you can picture the situation you'd like to be in, but
have only the vaguest idea how to get there, a coach
can help you formulate an action plan and motivate you
to stick with it.
Do
you have clear professional
goals?
If you're
unhappy in your profession and don't have the
slightest clue what to do next, a career counselor
might be more effective than a coach. If you find
yourself in this predicament, though, don't beat
yourself up over it. "If you don't know what you want
to do, my answer is it's not time to know yet," says
Laura Bremen Fortgang, author of Take Yourself to
the Top: The Secrets of America's #1 Career Coach
(Warner Books, 1998). "Live with the uncomfortable
feelings for awhile."
Are
you willing to focus on the present, or do you still
have lingering issues to clear up from the past?
Those
struggling through past trauma and loss are better
served seeking a therapist's services to clear up
those issues before hiring a coach. That way, by the
time you sit down with a coach, you'll be ready to
leave the past behind and work toward the future.
Are
you interested in developing
yourself?
Often, a
company will insist that an executive hire the
services of a coach. "But there's no point coaching
someone who doesn't see reasons for it, or the
benefits of it," says Michael Banks, principal and
director of KRW International, a top provider of
executive development coaching services to Fortune 500
companies around the world. The coach's role, in part,
is to help people see how their thinking and behavior
patterns create obstacles. If you don't see any room
for improvement in these areas, getting a coach is
probably not worth either your time or your money.
Conversely, if you're a self-blamer, willing to accept
fault for everything, then it is also difficult for
coaching to succeed.
Are
you about to make a critical decision pertaining to
your life or your
career?
When you're
standing at a crossroads, unsure which way to turn, a
coach can help you prioritize, and unearth your
motivations and desires. "I wouldn't dare make a
critical decision without calling a coach," says Jim
Jose, an organizational effectiveness strategist and
leadership coach based in Tucson, Arizona. "None of us
works well in isolation, or achieves what we're
capable of achieving, personally or professionally,
without help from others."
Are
you ambitious?
These days,
there's no stigma attached to hiring the services of a
coach. In fact, if anything, it signals to those
around you that you're a "player." According to Banks,
at certain blue-chip companies, being asked by the
organization to work with a coach is "an absolute sign
that the company is targeting for them to go to the
top." Many of the people he works with -- all in upper
management, rarely below the VP level -- are already
extremely successful. "People who do best with
coaching are those with a genuine desire to be as good
as they can be, and are not too proud to admit that
they could do even better."
Are
you getting the message from those around you that you
need to make changes, but aren't sure how to implement
them?
It can be
discouraging to hear a lot of negative feedback at the
office. A coach can help you put it into some
perspective so that you begin to grow from your
mistakes. "If we're constantly beaten down with
negative stuff, we don't take the time to look at the
positive side, which is, 'what can I learn from
this?'" says Jose. "A coach will help you look at the
situation in a more balanced way."
Are
you willing to work extremely
hard? Don't
expect a coach to sit there and do all the work. On
the contrary, good coaches hold their clients' feet to
the fire. "My job is to constantly challenge my
clients," says Zachary Green, senior scholar at the
University of Maryland's Burns Academy of Leadership.
"People need to develop a sense of integrity by
keeping promises they make to themselves." During each
session, Green asks his clients what they plan to have
achieved by the next meeting. "If they say, 'I'll make
one phone call,' I tell them that's lame. So they'll
say, 'I'll make 15 phone calls and I'll have my resume
posted on Monster.com by the next time we meet.' So I
say, 'Okay then, that's our contract.' If they do it,
I say, 'Now we know you can do this.' If not, I'm
supportive and available, but really press them to
explore why they messed up the situation."
What
are you putting up with?
What's the biggest challenge you have?
What kind of support would be helpful to you?
Want to learn about the costs of executive coaching?
Want to check out some coaching plan options?
If you are really committed to what you want to do, let's have a telephone conversation about getting there from here.
Call 734.426.2000 (US Eastern Time Zone) or email to arrange for a free consultation to discuss where you are heading. Click to learn more about John Agno, certified executive & business coach.